|12:05 am - The exodus of friends continues . . .|
One of the side effects of being Evil Incarnate . . .
~~ sighs ~~
~~ twirls her pointy tail ~~
~~ sings Voltaire's "When You're Evil" to cheer herself up ~~
~~ twirls her pointy tail some more ~~
~~ starts to read "Pariah-hood for Dummies" ~~
Current Mood: resigned
Current Music: "When You're Evil" by Voltaire
|Date:||October 20th, 2005 08:16 pm (UTC)|| |
Re: attempting to be a voice of reason...
I have been reading this entry with interest because whether you believe it or not I really do want to make sure you are ok.
Duly noted -- and I accept that you want to make sure I'm OK.
I'm now attempting one last time to communicate with you, though I'm not sure how helpful it will be because you don't seem to believe anything I say is true. You seem to feel that everything I say is with the intent of harming you.
In deference to your partner and what he wrote above, I will accept that you didn't mean to be as hurtful as you were. It likely has to do with your style of communicating -- the messages other receive from you may not be what you intended to send.
I'm not sure what words you feel I used in person that were intentionally harmful. I didn't even direct any words towards you during that exchange.
There were exchanges other than that one with you. Ones where you rather forcefully rubbed my nose in the situation. Don't ask me for the exact words now -- I could have told you in detail on Sunday, but I can't now -- I only remember the impact they had on me -- and how much they hurt.
With regards to the conversation IM... I believe the point I made was that you had backed yourself into a corner by staying in a relationship that was making you miserable and I asked you why. Then, instead of thinking about that you reverted to tears and anger.
I told you I didn't want to discuss the situation repeatedly, yet you kept on bringing it up again and again and again -- hammering me with it over and over and over. Poking at a sore spot and rubbing my nose in it -- again. And again. And again. Until I fled in tears because I couldn't take it anymore.
Despite it all I want you to be healthy and happy. So I wish you well!
Duly noted and accepted.