and you're forgetting that he never made any sort of a commitment to you.

No -- I never made the commitment to him. I kept on pushing him away. I was trying to make something work with someone else. And I didn't want to make a commitment to him while I was involved with someone else -- that wouldn't have been fair to me. So he became involved with others. I wasn't available to him. My bad.

Oh my god 'seph, you have totally stepped into the realm of the surreal.
The fact that you can't/won't see that is really not normal. You really need to speak to someone professional. I give up.

I don't think I'm being surreal -- although you do.

It's OK -- this was a complicated messy situation that evolved over most of a decade. You've only known me since his current primary has been in the picture.

If you'd known me earlier, maybe you'd have a different opinion.


Persephone

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