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October 16th, 2005


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02:12 pm - What some conveniently forget . . .
Actions have consequences.
Current Mood: crushedcrushed
Current Music: "Miststück" by Megaherz

(10 seeds eaten | Eat a pomegranate)

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From:mowglikat
Date:October 16th, 2005 08:13 pm (UTC)
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you o.k., sweetie beanie?
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From:theentwife
Date:October 16th, 2005 09:33 pm (UTC)
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No.


Persephone
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From:zon14
Date:October 16th, 2005 09:02 pm (UTC)
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No kidding!
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From:skitten
Date:October 16th, 2005 11:40 pm (UTC)
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P-
I'm very sorry you had such a tough time this weekend.
I was glad you were there for my intiation nd I am touched by the generosity of your gifts..

However, I will understand if you decide it's simply too painful to be friends anymore... and if need be I will mail your presents back to you... the socks I'm keeping 'cause I put them on though...

again, I feel badly that this was rough on you. I hope you can gain some perspective on it eventually... *hug*
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From:thatgothgrrl
Date:October 16th, 2005 11:41 pm (UTC)
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Whats up?
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From:theentwife
Date:October 17th, 2005 06:14 pm (UTC)
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I don't want to go into details on LJ (not my style) -- I plan on sending you an email later with all the gory details. And they ARE gory.

Read the lyrics to the entry's song -- you'll get the gist of the problem -- translation from German slightly changed to reflect that this is being addressed to a male (in my case):

Miststück (Piece of Shit)

Eaten up and spit out
Drank too long and too much
Cheated, and gotten the stuffing beaten out
Deceived and laughed at
Seduced and then cheated on
Moved and then turned off
Consumed and sweated out
Inflamed and sent packing

Blinded, starved, and dead
The best time wasted
on a slut like you

You are a piece of shit
You are a piece of crap
You are a piece of shit
a piece of crap

Kissed and infected
Hated and gotten rid of
Deceived and laughed at
Burned and done in
Seduced and then hurt
Touched and abandoned
My bed dirtied for nothing
Twisted and exploited

I cannot, I cannot
I cannot be without you
I cannot, I cannot
I cannot be with you
I cannot, I cannot
I cannot be alone
Piece of shit, I hate you

I cannot, I cannot
I cannot be without you
I cannot, I cannot
I cannot be with you
I cannot, I cannot
I cannot be alone
Fuck you, you goddamned piece of shit

Blinded, starved, and corrupted
I know for sure I'll already
want you back again tomorrow
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From:skitten
Date:October 17th, 2005 09:41 pm (UTC)
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you are not being laughed at... and he still cares about you...
I think the problem is that poly is not for you and being in love with a poly man is very difficult if you aren't poly
I'm very aware that this has been hard for you but you are not thrown away... unless you would prefer to be....
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From:theentwife
Date:October 17th, 2005 10:46 pm (UTC)

Bull manure, bull manure and yet MORE bull manure . . .

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you are not being laughed at...

Bull manure -- I quote your own entry here:

I feel badly for P but things were discussed ahead of time but apparently things got a little out of hand because E didn't know what was going on, started teasing me about it and I tried to stop that from happening and she didn't get my body language nor my words, not her fault really... just a bad situation- we really should have told her what was going on ahead of time (but I'm not sure I entirely understood what exactly was going to go down)... so I fear things were unintentionally rubbed in P's face...

You did it as well as E. And I was informed that this would be occurring -- unlike B and T, who were asked -- and I was told that you were only going to be talking and snuggling (Trillian chat logs are a WONDERFUL thing!!!) -- I was given a situation to deal with with no say whatsoever about anything and damn little consideration for my feelings, as you expressed your own self that night, when you indicated you knew full well how I felt.

I quote again from that same post of yours:

I almost decided NOT to at that point... but two years of pent up waiting is difficult to overcome....

You knew -- but you didn't care.

he still cares about you...

He knew too -- and he did it anyway, just like you did.

Actions speak louder than words.

I think the problem is that poly is not for you and being in love with a poly man is very difficult if you aren't poly

Damn right it is -- and I have never, ever claimed to be anything except monogamous. As he knew. And you knew.

I'm very aware that this has been hard for you but you are not thrown away...

Bull manure.

He has time to spend with you but none for me -- there's always some excuse. For months -- and months -- and months. Actions speak louder than words.

You must not have gotten the memo that for poly people, secondaries are disposable. We're not supposed to have feelings that can be hurt, unlike the oh-so-coddled primaries, who get consulted about things. Secondaries get "take it or leave it" instead.

So I left it.

Congratulations on being the new Flavor-of-the-Month.


Persephone the Disposable Secondary
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From:thatgothgrrl
Date:October 18th, 2005 07:58 am (UTC)

Re: Bull manure, bull manure and yet MORE bull manure . . .

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Whoa.
OK, I have tomorrow off, a big letter and a chat I think...
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From:thatgothgrrl
Date:October 19th, 2005 05:43 am (UTC)

Re: Bull manure, bull manure and yet MORE bull manure . . .

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OK, I feel I should do this. Impulsive of me but I feel needed as a show of support to a loved friend. I'll post this on LJ, but I will write details to you privately.

I think you are being publicy baited here. Kinda clever to use your LJ to do it, but only in the way that it seems you started it...

For persons involved to come out and state 'xyz' on LJ about your private situation (and to then remove some things said also - suspiciously) when you had NOT alluded to a subject matter publicly is just a childish tactic to lure you into speaking out so they can point and say *look, its her fault not mine* all, possibly, for someones sick amusement and miss-guided justification for hurting you.

Keep silent, my friend, as the season in your part of the world counsels you as America aproaches Samhain. Let these so called persons alone in their drama. For if "harm none" is the law, then they have broken the law, and used sacred space to do it in. Gives Polyamory a bad name it does...

Distance youself and proctect youself my love - for these are false prophets.

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